Dream meaning

Spider

The short answer

Dreams of spiders and insects usually reflect something small that feels threatening, intrusive or hard to get rid of: a nagging worry, a person who gets under your skin, or a situation that keeps creeping back. For people afraid of spiders, they often mirror stress more generally.

33.8% of people in the study had had this dream. More common in women: 37.1%, against 25.5% of men. No. 17 of the 55 typical dreams · Nielsen et al., 2003

Spider

What does a dream about “Spider” mean?

What psychologists say

Researchers link insect and spider dreams to anxiety and disgust, and to personal fears that carry into sleep. In the Canadian typical dreams study they were more common among women and younger students, and they belonged to a group of negative themes along with snakes. Under the continuity hypothesis, the spider often stands for something small but persistent in daily life.

Nielsen et al., 2003; Schredl & Hofmann, 2003

The Jungian reading

A Jungian reading sees the spider as a weaver at the centre of a web: a symbol of fate, creativity or an engulfing mother figure. Being caught in a web can point to feeling trapped by a pattern; watching a spider build can point to patient creation.

Jung, 1964

In history and folklore

Folk beliefs about spiders are mixed. In many European traditions a spider was lucky, a sign of money coming, and killing one was bad luck. In others, a spider in a dream warned of a cunning enemy.

How common is this dream?

33.8% of people in the study had had this dream. More common in women: 37.1%, against 25.5% of men. From a survey of 1,181 first-year university students in three Canadian cities. No. 17 of the 55 typical dreams.

Common versions of this dream

What if the spider is huge?

Size usually shows how big the worry feels, not how big it is.

What if spiders crawl on me?

Something on your skin points to an intrusion: a person, a duty or a thought that won't leave you alone.

What if I kill the spider?

Killing it can mean facing the worry. Some dreamers feel guilt afterwards, a hint the spider stood for something they value.

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Sources

  1. Nielsen, T. A., Zadra, A. L., Simard, V., Saucier, S., Stenstrom, P., Smith, C., & Kuiken, D. (2003). The typical dreams of Canadian university students. Dreaming, 13(4), 211–235. doi:10.1023/B:DREM.0000003144.40929.0b
  2. Schredl, M., & Hofmann, F. (2003). Continuity between waking activities and dream activities. Consciousness and Cognition, 12(2), 298–308. doi:10.1016/S1053-8100(02)00072-7
  3. Jung, C. G. (Ed.) (1964). Man and His Symbols. Aldus Books.